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10 Simple Yet Divine Orgasm Techniques for MenThere's been so much written about sex techniques, tricks, and 'hacks' for women--thinking of you Cosmo--that it often appears men are overlooked. Albeit, perhaps this is because their sexual response pattern is very straightforward: the penis is stimulated either manually, orally, or via intercourse, and then with a bit of rubbing back and forth: orgasm! While mechanically, yes, all men experience orgasm in much the same way, it remains a subjective experience in its own right: some men may be completely silent and still when they climax, whereas others may groan and wriggle about in pleasure. Before we delve into specific, actionable techniques that one can implement to enhance their orgasms, let's discuss what does make orgasm an objective experience. Great Orgasmic Expectations On Age and Experience Unlike women, most--if not all--sexual activity a man engages in will result in orgasm. This is not to say that the orgasms are good, rather, experiencing climax is merely ensured in a way for men than it is for women. Two 'rules' that will always impact the strength and pleasure of one's orgasm are age and experience. Age As you get older, the body deteriorates. It is sad, yet true. As all the bodily functions weaken over time, the body's ability to produce plentiful, powerful orgasms is unfortunately included among those failing faculties. Experience This is the inverse of aging. A virgin won't know that his particular body will deliver the most powerful orgasm when he is in the doggy-style position, whereas a Don Juan of sorts will know that he has his most powerful orgasm in the reverse cowgirl position. To be clear, we don't mean everyone has their best orgasms in the above positions, we mean that different people may get the most amount of pleasure from different positions. The Cure Is there a 'work-around' to keep everything functioning optimally into old age? Is there a way one can somehow leverage age and experience into a beautiful synergy of sorts? Yes, there are two ways, in fact. And if done, you can keep the orgasms coming (literally) for the rest of your life, and probably reach heights beyond what nature initially gifted you with. What are they? Without diving into paragraphs of detail, they are: A. Hormone Replacement Therapy HRT will keep everything running as though it were still 20-25 years old, depending on your prescribed doses. That 60-year-old ho-hum orgasm can physiologically be changed for the better. Thank you medical technology! B. Kegels If this is your first reading of a SexToysForMen.Co article: first of all, welcome, second, you'll be hearing about Kegels day and night. And for good reason. Aside from HRT, if there is one thing you can do to improve your sex life this very minute, without pulling out a credit card or scouring sex guides on amazon.com, it is Kegels. They will assist you in developing the pelvic floor muscles to their full potential. You'll have rock hard erections, an improved libido, and explosive orgasms to top it all off. Now, what you've been patiently waiting for... The Techniques 1. The Pulsar The Pulsar--sounding like a spaceship out of Star Wars--is a technique that enhances the physical sensation of orgasm and one that is also done as ejaculation is occurring. Clasp your two hands around the head of your man's penis, squeeze gently and hold for a second, then let go. Repeat until the orgasm has run its course. The trick is to imitate the rhythmic pulsations of the orgasmic contractions. 2. Stimulate the Prostate The forgotten sex organ, and understandably so. It is hidden at the top of the anal passage and can often be overlooked until accidentally bumped into--if you catch our drift. However, stimulation of the prostate alone, through the massage of a finger or prostate massager, can bring a man to orgasm. Yes, this can happen without even touching the penis! Although, touching the penis while you do this can be quite amazing. This is one of our favorite toys for combining prostate massage with genital stimulation. Where exactly is the prostate? First, if you need help finding your prostate, please refer to this guide here: How to Find Your Prostate in Five Minutes Flat. We'll cover it briefly below: The prostate gland encircles the urethra at the exit from the bladder. To reach it, insert a well-lubricated finger into the anus and press against its front wall (the side nearest the penis). This is very much akin to locating the female g-spot. You will feel the prostate gland as a firm, walnut-sized mass. Press it in a sustained, regular rhythm to give maximum pleasure. Continue until orgasm and/or satisfaction is reached. And, but of course, always wash your hands immediately afterward. 3. Delay Climax The more drawn out the buildup to sex, the more sexual tension there is to release at the time of orgasm, leading to a deeper and more pleasurable climax. The best methods for delaying your orgasm are performing A) Kegels, B) the Beautrais Maneuver, or C) the Penile Squeeze technique. It's worth noting that if you suffer from any form of pre-ejaculation, these techniques can also be utilized with good results. A) Kegels Yep. Reason #752 to do them regularly. As you approach orgasm, kegel hard--several times if you must--to 'push back' your ejaculation. Refer to this post for a detailed guide on implementing a Kegel routine. B) The Beautrais Maneuver When you feel that you're on the brink of crossing over to the 'point-of-no-return', grab your testicles and pull down very firmly. This has the effect of blocking the urethral passage and as a result, prevents ejaculation. C) The Penile Squeeze (or Pause Squeeze) i. Firmly grasp the penis on the coronal ridge (the ridge around the head of the penis) between the forefingers and thumb. ii. When you feel that you are close to ejaculating, ask or signal to your partner to squeeze hard. iii. The erection may subside a little after the squeeze has been performed and the feeling of imminent ejaculation will have diminished. To get it back, simply resume your favorite form of stimulation! 4. Have multiple orgasms There are various ways you can develop the right degree of muscle control to achieve multiple orgasms, although, it does take time and patience to develop them. To put them briefly: A) Learn testicle control. Standing with your feet apart, pull up your testicle muscles toward your lower abdomen. Repeat as often as possible every day, but stop if your testicles begin to hurt. B) Give yourself an erection and train yourself to keep it hard for as long as possible. Kegeling is the name of the game here. C) Understand that climax is triggered by a kind of tension in the pelvic area called
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14 Zesty Ways to Make Sex Toys Apart of Your Regularly Scheduled Bedroom ProgrammingYes, this article has a long title. We think it's clever. Now, what is one to do when your sex life is starting to feel a little vanilla? Simple: add sprinkles. Or: change the flavor. What in the heck does that mean? Allow us to explain... 1. Sex Shop Plan a shopping spree with a twist: you and your partner are only allowed to buy products of the erotic variety. If you're on our site, we're assuming you've done so already or are about to do so. Get ideas for your naughty purchases from sex store catalogs (again, shameless plug). If online sex shops don't appeal to you, go to more traditional stores like Lovers--a popular one here in the Pacific Northwest. Lie in bed with your significant other and make a saucy shopping list: sexy lingerie, novelty condoms, flavored lubricant, a prostate massager, a Magic Wand Vibrator... whatever takes your interest. Take turns unwrapping all your packages -- in bed. 2. Toy Box Buy or make your own sex toy box to go under the bed. Paint it black and keep it locked -- only you and your partner will know where the key is kept. If your toys are really x-rated, use a box with a combination lock. This is an easier alternative anyway, since you won't have to remember the location of a key Plus, you can sexify things further with an erotic number combination. 6969 anyone? Too cliche? Maybe avoid that one, as we're sure it'll be every sneaking person's first guess. When you finally open the box for playtime, blindfold your partner and let them make their choice. Put in occasional surprises when you do this. Put sensual toys in your box to heighten the whole engagement: feathers, squares of satin, silk, fur, and velvet that will caress your lover's skin. Include a book of erotic stories or fantasies that you can read aloud to each other before the 'events' of the evening begin. Literotica is our suggested go to! Simply print them off if you'd like them on-hand. And you can't forget a Kama Satura-style position guide with sexy pictures for inspiration. There are a lot of books out there like that these days--this is our favorite that we recommend--fitted with good descriptions and illustrations. Likewise, stock up on practical stuff such as condoms, lubricants, and massage oil. Keep a supply of items that are not obviously sex toys but ask for improv: a ribbon, a table tennis ball, a string of beads, and a hairbrush. Let your imagination run wild. Have a diverse collection of sex toys such as vibrators (different sizes and shapes), dildos, penis rings, anal plugs, and nipple clamps. Include some BDSM toys such as silk cords,
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19 Bewitching Ways to Make Your Sweetheart's Love-Gears TurnInterested in fanning the 'sexual-flame' of your lover? You've come to the right place. Below, we discuss nineteen different ways you can nurture naughty thoughts in the mind of your significant someone. For the purpose of this article, we use him and her interchangeably. 1. Let's Kiss A kiss on the mouth combines the senses of touch, taste, and smell. Moreover, it is impossible to feel emotionally neutral about someone when sharing a kiss that lasts longer than ten seconds, as we wrote about here. Start by kissing gently with your lips. Go on to cup your lover's face in your hands and then press more firmly as you part your lips and slowly begin to caress your lover's mouth with your tongue. 2. Do-It-Yourself Sex Several ways you can add masturbation into your foreplay: 1). Masturbate alone before you see your partner -- but don't let yourself orgasm! This way you'll be dying for sex when you meet. 2) Masturbate in front of each other. The first person to reach orgasm has to give the other a sexual favor. 3) Titillate your partner by masturbating in front of him. Close your eyes and pretend that you're truly alone, so they can see how you really like to play. 4) Buy her a masturbation toy such as a vibrator, and tell her that' it's solely for her pleasure. Get her to use it on herself as a warm-up prior to your arrival. In the same manner, buy him a masturbation vibrator. 3. Sex Talk Keep her in a state of tingling anticipation by blindfolding her and whispering in her ear what you are going to do to her in bed. Pay your partner breathless compliments during foreplay. Tell him how sexy he is and how turned on you feel. Tell sexy stories or anecdotes in bed. 4. Tongues and Toes Kiss the soles of the feet and draw your fingers between each toe as you do. Wow you lover's mind by washing her feet in the bath and then sucking lingeringly on each toe in turn. Pamper him with a peppermint foot bath and rub. Finish by wrapping his feet in a warm fluffy towel. 5. Boudoir Bliss Make your bedroom into a sexy haven -- lots of candles for seductive lighting, a mountain of soft cushions and pillows to fall back upon, and plenty of soft sensual fabrics such as silk, satin, or cashmere. Scent the air with exotic incense or the fragrance of fresh flowers. Sprinkle red rose petals on your sheets. Get rid of telephones, computers, alarm clocks, radios, and anything else that makes a distracting noise. Put red drapes over your bed or across the window -- red is the color of energy and passion. Keep everything you need--such as massage oils/lotion, toys, lube, and condoms--right by the bed. Some other oil recommendations: Lavendar & Vanilla. 6. Hands-Only Give your partner a sensual glow by massaging his neck and shoulders. Rub warm massage oil into your hands and move your thumbs in small firm circles. The trapezius area is especially receptive to massage. Afterward, run your fingertips down his back, over his buttocks, and then bring your hands around to his front side to caress his genitals. 7. Naughty Nylons Invite him to watch you undress while you are wearing sexy black stockings and a garter. Place one foot on a chair and slowly unroll the stocking down the length of your leg. Drop it on the floor and then do the same with the other leg. Let yourself get really turned on by the experience. Take your stockings off as sexily as possible and then use them to bind your partner's wrists together. And then, of course, have your way with him. 8. Champagne Sex Have truly extravagant sex by dowsing each other in champagne and then slowly licking it off. Pour it in each other's navel, and then lap it up with your tongue. Take a mouthful of chilled champagne and drizzle it over your lover's genitals before you give yummy oral sex. 9. Erogenous Zones Wait until she's feeling really aroused, then nibble and nuzzle her earlobe alongside breathing gently into her ear. Run your fingertips or nails lightly over his buttocks and trail them down the backs of his thighs. Pour massage oil on her breasts and then use the head of your penis to massage her nipples. Kiss and stroke him in different places all over his body. Ask him to rate his sensations from 1-5 (5 is amazing). Use your hair to tickle his belly. 10. Bedtime Bath Treat your bathroom to a romantic renovation. Scatter rose petals in the bathwater and fill the room with scented candles. Play some romantic music in the background and share a glass of wine with your lover. Use a natural sponge to drizzle water over each other's erogenous zones. If you're feeling tired... soak in a hot bath for 10 minutes and then stand up and have a quick cold shower. The pores all over your body will be tingling, and you'll feel invigorated and ready for even the most athletic sex session. Offer to be your partner's bathtime slave. Your duties include undressing her, soaping her body, shampooing her hair, and, finally, wrapping her up in a big fluffy towel. Then take her by the hand and lead her into the bedroom. Make bathtime fun by squirting each other with water pistols and playing with rubber ducks. Give each other an orgasm in the bath. Be inventive -- use plenty of shower gel, fingers, and toes. Wash each other's hair, giving each other a glorious head massage in the process -- then wash each other's pubic hair, teasing their genitals as you go. 11. Mirror Mirror Double the excitement of sex by making love in front of a mirror. Be as raunchy and abandoned as you like. Turn yourself on solo-style. Caress your body in front of a mirror -- pretend that you're performing for a camera. Then bring yourself to orgasm, watching yourself the whole time. Make love doggie-style with a mirror positioned underneath you on the floor. 12. Caresses and Hugs Spend half an hour caressing before you make love. Don't touch each other's genitals until you've explored the rest of the body first. Your naughty bits will be gorged with blood and excitement by the time you reach them. Give each other a huge bear hug. Sneak up behind your partner, wrap your arms around her waist, and nuzzle the back of her neck. 13. Strip Tease Start by touching yourself through your clothes. Take your clothes off very slowly and caress your skin as you go. Look your partner in the eye. Slip your panties off last. Enjoy yourself -- and show it! 14. Oil Bathing Coat your partner with sweet-smelling massage oil -- suntan oil offers a reminder of relaxed days on the beach. Coat yourself with oil. Take turns giving each other a long and sensual Indian head massage (Video is SFW), using jasmine-scented oil. Lie down on a big towel and enjoy slippery foreplay together. Make your hand into the shape of a duck's bill and then drizzle warm oil across the back of your hand so that it drips tantalizingly onto your lover's genitals. Now give a hypnotizing genital massage. Rub oil into her breasts and nipples. Beware of using oil and condoms in the same sex session -- oil damages rubber and can make condoms ineffective. If you want a slippery lubricant, use water-based jelly, saliva, or our precious Coconut Oil--see the suggestions right below! Our Recommended Oils & Lotions ↪︎Organic Extra Virgin Coconut Oil and/or Fractionated (Liquid) Coconut Oil Alternative (Our favorite non-water-based lube as well) ↪︎Sensual Massage Lotion (We aren't a fan of lotion and use the coconut oil for massages too, but this is the one we recommend) ↪︎Two Massage Oil Alternatives to Coconut Oil: Fox Envy Vanilla & Maple Holistics Lavender 15. Sensual Smell Remember that bodily smells are sexy. Your partner's fresh sweat can be a unique and personal turn-on. Use exotic Eastern essential oils on your bed sheets and pillows. Try ylang ylang, patchouli, and jasmine. Spray some of your perfume or aftershave onto a tissue and give it to your partner when the two of you are apart... we know you'll probably use underwear or a bra instead. 16. Weekend Away Schedule a sexy weekend away--a month in advance as well--so you'll have plenty of time for building anticipation and coming up with fun 'activities.' Plus, don't take anything 'practical' with you. Pack your suitcase with exotic lingerie, sex toys, massage oil, and a saucy personal present for your partner. Spend the first evening relaxing and giving each other fantastic, sexual massages. Order some champagne from room service and share a steamy bath together. Sleep until you both wake up naturally, and then spend long, lazy mornings in bed teasing and fondling each other. Make the evenings special. Dress up, share an exotic cocktail in the bar, and choose a restaurant together. And before bed? We'll let you figure that one out. 17. Peek-A-Boo Playfully torment your partner by draping yourself with a sheet and then letting it
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The Sexy Economical Impact of the CoronavirusHello friends, I hope this message finds you well amidst the chaos. If you haven't already done so, please swipe our FREE book 6 Minutes to Maximizing Your Orgasmic Pleasure. It will help you put your new-found free time to good use if you're currently stuck at home. According to Gent Side, an online publication in the UK, not all things are bad economically with respect to the Coronavirus Hysteria. Now, first and foremost, we get it. We're a US-based business and things aren't so hot right now for most small-based businesses. So if you're struggling out there, we feel for you. Oddly enough though--or not!--according to the above article sex toy and condom sales have increased quite a bit in areas impacted by the Coronavirus. Makes sense. Basically, sales of all hygiene-related products have increased, so more condom sales seem like a no brainer. But sex toys? We truthfully didn't see that one coming, but it is a pleasant surprise. We can't help but smile knowing that people anticipating potential lockdowns are getting all their bases squared away: food, condoms, and precious sex toys. It can't hurt ensuring that you'll be able to keep yourself entertained and occupied while indoors for long periods of time, and sex toys are just another item to add to your time-spending repertoire. Albeit a much more interesting one than board games, in our humble opinion. Pour Conclure To end this e-letter, we have decided to have a sale for those who feel so inclined. We don't have them often as they're not our MO, however, we're making an exception due to what's going on in the world right now. Use code HEALTH-24 for 24% off your entire order at check out. The discount code will be active for the next two days. You can shop our catalog by clicking here. You'll also find a link in the footer below. Stay healthy my friends. Hopefully, this will all blow over soon. Your Pal, -Liam Valentine P.S. Please download our free booklet 6 Minutes to Maximizing Your Orgasmic Pleasure, we're SURE you'll like it. Secondly, take a peek at our toy catalog and see if we have anything that interests you.
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How to Have Sex in Public Places Without Getting Caught - Pt. 2: Libraries, Movie Theaters, Parking Lots, Music Festivals, & The BeachDisclaimer: This article is for educational and satire purposes only. You should never break the law or disobey the authorities in the area in which you live. Read the previous installment of this series here: Part 1 Continuing where we left off, we're going to jump straight back into it... The Cinema Having sex in a movie theater is as old as movie theaters themselves. Heck, with movies like Backbroke Mountain and Jennifer's Body, it's almost like they're begging us to do it! So how does one pull off this marvelous feat? 1. See an unpopular movie. I'm sure this seems obvious, but trying to 'get funky' during the opening night of The Dark Knight would probably prove to be extremely difficult. So instead of seeing whatever is currently popular, choose something that isn't doing so hot... 2019's movie Cats comes to mind. On the flip side, you can go for a movie that has been out for a while and see it during a weekday when most people are at work. 2. Go at the earliest time possible. Who sees a movie at 9 am on a weekday? Almost no one. On top of this, sources tell us that Tuesday is the least popular day of the week to go to the movie theater. Alternatively, you could also see the last movie that is set to run that day. The projection manager typically leaves right as the last movie begins to play--leaving you entirely alone if the theater is already empty. 3. Head towards the front. Contrary to popular belief, it's in the back that you'll be seen. Perhaps you'll feel like no one in the theater is watching, but the staff are watching. The front is the primary area in most theaters where the security camera feeds--if there are any--don't show. However, if your goal is only a handjob or something similar, this isn't necessary. Albeit, that doesn't mean you can't go to the back. Just know that if the staff feel so inclined, they will come in and tell you to leave. This probably won't happen though, but it can. You've been warned. If the theater doesn't have security cameras, however, the back will be the best place to go. The last four or five rows are out of sight of the projectionist and, especially if the theater is empty, they'll pay you no attention. 4. Do the deed. If you're in the front, a horizontal position like missionary will have you out of sight--the floor may be gross though, so prepare yourself! If you're in the back, reverse cowgirl or something similar will probably fit the bill. If you decide to opt for something less intense like a blowjob or handjob, all it takes is putting your coat or sweatshirt over your lap and your security and privacy are guaranteed. 5. Teens: don't do this. If you get caught, it can end badly. The chance of anything happening aside from hearing, 
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The Concise Guide to Great Sex: Part 6 - After-play and EmbracingRead the previous installments here: Part 1 Part 2 Part 3A Part 3B Part 3C Part 4 Part 5 So you banged. Now what? First things first: high-five each other. Kidding, but of course, have at it if you wish to. There are a million and one things you can do after having sex. Nothing is mandatory. Here are our suggestions with respect to awesome post-coitus activities. Hit the Bathroom No need to do this right away, but if you've ever had a UTI (urinary tract infection), you may want to do this immediately. Relieving yourself will clean out all your love-pipes and ensure that no fluids sit there for too long. If this happens, it can cause bacteria to multiply and make for an unpleasant time later. On another note, supplementing with Cranberry Extract can act as a preventative measure and remedy if you find yourself with a UTI or are prone to getting them. Talk (A.K.A. Pillow Talk) We get it. Some people don't like intimate conversation after sex when hormones and cuddle-chemicals are at an all-time high. That's fine. Discussing your emotions isn't necessary. It's only one option of a limitless supply of topics available. However, it will be our first suggestion below as sex and intimacy are intricately related... Talk About Dem Feels Both (or more!) of you just experienced an explosive high of feel-good chemicals. A mixture of neurotransmitters like dopamine and serotonin, coupled with hormones such as testosterone and oxytocin, will be flowing rampantly through your brain and bloodstream. It's not by accident that these kinds of conversations occur right after intimacy. Love it or hate it, your body and your lover's body will be flooded with these neurochemicals. If you've ever wondered why those 'fuck-buddy' relationships turn romantic, wonder no more. Any conversation regarding the relationship between you and your lover will be right at home during this time. It will feel like the best time in the world to enjoy each other's company, discuss the future, and confess your ooey-gooey emotions. As we said, we get that not everyone wants an intimate conversation and just wants to have sexual pleasure. Yet, even if a conversation has already happened regarding a non-romantic sexual agreement, biology will not cooperate. Don't get us wrong here, there are always exceptions to this fact of nature. We're simply 'telling you how it is.' So if you do desire an emotional conversation after sex, it is a great time to have one! And if you don't want one, well, it may unfortunately come up anyway. Check-in What better time to see how your partner is doing than after a nice romp? Ask them if they're comfy, what they're in the mood to do, and see how they're doing. You'll be able to listen to how their day went with big, dumb smile on your face. Complement Riding off the post-sex afterglow, any compliments you give immediately after copulation will be well received. All that oxytocin will make even the simplest of remarks seem all the more meaningful. Get Deep Don't worry, we're not repeating ourselves again. We don't mean sharing your emotions here. By deep, we mean to have a meaningful conversation about any topic--but not necessarily regarding intimacy. In other words, discuss the nature of life, ponder a philosophical question, or playfully debate an issue either of you feels passionately about--nutrition, politics (careful with this one), economics, writing, cooking--the world is your oyster! Get Technical We're not referring to sex toy maintenance. But you can do that too. We're referring to a productive conversation with regards to your sexual performance. What went well? What positions did you guys like? What should you try next time? Should you buy a sex toy for your next encounter? Wink wink. Or, perhaps, have a tab open to Sex Info 101 to give something new a go? Kiss Sometimes after some hot and heavy slammin', you just want to slowly kiss or passionately make out as you ride out the high. Post-climax is a great time to do so. Sometimes after orgasm, some will find this unappealing and not very sexy, other times, your lover will have never tasted so good. Cuddle This will probably happen without conscious awareness of it. You finish up, rollover, and naturally entwine yourself with your naked lover. Feelsgoodman. Shower and/or Massage Sometimes sex is messy. Okay, a lot of the time. To continue the fun, nothing screams romance more than jumping into a hot, steamy shower and rubbing each other down. In addition, a massage after an orgasm is an excellent way to wind down the play. During your orgasm, all your muscles tense up, contract, and then finally relax as you climax and all the tension is released from your body. While typically a weapon in the 'foreplay arsenal,' a massage can feel fantastic because of the above. This can be done standing in the shower or laying down in bed. If you want to add a little spice to those hands, we recommend this lotion alongside our favorite topical for everything: Extra Virgin Coconut Oil. Prepare Refreshments A very versatile activity, which can vary depending on the time of day. Morning sex? A cup of coffee and waffles in bed may sound nice. Afternoon delight? Cheese, bread, and apples are all favorite staples. An evening shag? Pour a glass of wine and break off a piece of dark chocolate. At the end of the day, there are no 'rules' regarding what to eat and drink after or before sex, so have whatever the hell your heart desires. That will always be the right answer. You may even be one of those folks who enjoy some nice green to accompany the sexual afterglow. Read Those yummy feelgood neurotransmitters aren't just there to add an exquisite high to your conversations. If you want to imbibe in some literature whilst having an altered perception, you'll most likely find it quite enjoyable. That post-sex grin will be plastered on your face while you read with glee. We don't necessarily mean cracking open your copy of Hamlet. Fifty Shades of Grey became a best seller for a reason. Alternatively, forget the books entirely and grab that magazine or the newspaper funnies you've been meaning to attend to. Turn on the T.V. There's a reason Netflix and Chill rose to stardom. T.V.s and computer screens have a funny way of finding themselves directly in front of your bed and other places of lounging...and consequently fornicating. So rewind that movie or show you put on right before you made your move, or flick it on for the first time. Like reading, your mood and consecutive outlook on life will affect how you view said movie or t.v. show. In other words, your
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The Concise Guide to Great Sex: Part 3B - Variations, Tips, & TricksRead the previous installments of this series here: Part 1 Part 2 Part 3A Sexy Moves Variety is important in your sex life. Don't get us wrong here, no one will truly get bored getting laid every day. Everyone's body likes to get off several times per week (or day!). But variety is the spice of life. No one gets sick of eating food every day, but we do like to mix up what it is we're eating. If an appetizer of missionary followed by a main course of doggy style are the only two items on the menu, keep reading on below to discover some new recipes you'll be able to cook up for you lovers during your next encounter. Kissing Kissing is an absolutely crucial skill in the relationship/dating world. It's sensual, it's comforting, and it's caring. It is the gateway to a lusty episode of thrusting, moaning, and passion. 10 Second Kiss Experts agree that any kiss lasting longer than ten seconds means your partner is ready to go to bed with you. Kidding. But experience does have something to say about this. Usually, whenever a kiss lasts longer than five or six seconds, romantic passion kicks in and the kiss transforms from a quick affectionate expression into something more...sexual. It is difficult to remain emotionally neutral about a potential sex partner after sharing a kiss like this. If you're wondering how to turn a simple kiss into a stepping stone for some snu snu (you can thank Futurama for that terminology), this is how. Pull to Kiss Ah. A delightful James Bond-esque move, the pull to kiss takes the sexiness of bumping faces up a notch. This move can be done in an assortment of different ways. In fact, you may already have your own variation of this. If your lover has cleavage, two front pockets, or two back bottom pockets (or just reach into the back of their pants), playfully hook your fingers/hands into them and pull them towards you. Commence kissing. Ask them to put their arms around your neck and be sure to cup their ass if you chose the route down under. If you leave your hands in place, this also locks them in near you and sets the precedent that you're in charge and leading the interaction. Who doesn't love it when someone else takes the lead? It will induce butterflies. The bonus caveat here is you may--quite literally--already be in your partner's pants. If they give the green light, go right on ahead and turn this kiss into full-blown sexy time. Stop Talking We all have to listen to our sex partner's drama and life problems from time to time. Especially if you live with them. Maybe you have your own detailed, special arrangement, so this isn't something you deal with. We're generally speaking here. The main purpose of this is to vent and have you pay attention to them--we all need that once in a while. What better way to show them you're paying attention than a kiss? To do this, begin to close the distance between the two of you and either step all the way forward or pull them towards you and kiss them intensely. They'll probably lose their train of thought. This is essentially a 'real-world' application of the Pull to Kiss. Stop Thinking If you ever find yourself wondering about whether a member of the opposite or same sex is interested in you, don't overthink it. If you're wondering whether you should 'make a move,' consider the following circumstances. You're alone with said person while all your other friends are in another room. At night. Sleeping in a bed. After a night of going out. Everyone knows. They know. Stop thinking about - Just bust a move! Far too many people overanalyze and overthink all this sex/romance stuff. Listen to your gut instinct. How many times have you thought/said to yourself,
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The Concise Guide to Great Sex: Part 3A - Variations, Tips, & TricksRead the previous installments of this series here: Part 1 Part 2 PLEASE READ BELOW: -- This notice will make sense as you read on in the article. This information is strictly for convenience purposes and is NOT MEDICAL ADVICE. There is absolutely no guarantee that the protocol(s) described here will translate into identical results for you. Do you want to do hormone replacement therapy? Go see an endocrinologist and do it right. Now onto the article... -- Different breeds of doggy style. Female superior Positions. Male-to-male positions. Threesomes. Masturbation. Sex during pregnancy. Rock hard erections. Let's get into it. Erection enhancement Chances are if you're male, your boner hasn't yet met its full potential. This is good news. Sex is already awesome, and now you know it can be even better. While you may be proud of your saluting soldier, you'll be blown away by how patriotic he can really get. Supplements Over the Counter To enhance erection quality, improved blood flow and circulation is required. Two amino acids that get the job done are L-Arginine and L-Citrulline. Both of these are sold as nutritional supplements and can be purchased in either a capsule or powder form. L-Arginine and L-Citrulline are both precursors to nitric oxide. The body converts L-Arginine directly into nitric oxide; nitric oxide is a chemical that temporarily widens the blood vessels inside the body, improving blood flow. L-Citrulline, on the other hand, is converted into L-Arginine inside the kidneys. From there, it continues along the aforementioned path. If they both do the same thing, does it matter which one you take? Some people respond better/or not at all to one or the other. We actually like to use both simultaneously, but be sure to experiment with both first before settling on one. You never know. We recommend taking 1-3 grams of your chosen supplement. We've read about some people taking doses up to 6 grams, so if you'd like to give that a shot and see if you get better results, go ahead. Click here for L-Citrulline. You may see another version of L-Citrulline with added Malate (malic acid) which may help improve energy production. Personally, we see better results with L-Citrulline alone, but if you feel so inclined it is an option. Click here for L-Arginine. Prescriptions The two big boys in this category are Viagra and Cialis. We're sure you've heard of Viagra. Who hasn't? Not everyone has heard of Cialis. Viagra is the classic
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The Concise Guide to Great Sex: Part 2 - IntercourseThe best part about sex? Those euphoric and pleasurable feelings that erupt from your body get to be experienced over and over throughout your lifetime. In moments of passion, your orgasm will feel like an explosion. Other times, your lovemaking session will be gentle and satisfying. Enough about why sex is awesome. Let's jump into the how. So you've already skillfully created the perfect sensual atmosphere and produced an ample amount of satisfying foreplay: You and your partner are aroused and ready to rumble. 1. Optional: Grab the lube! Not necessary, but if you feel the need, we'd opt for either a water-based lubricant or Coconut Oil. Vaseline or oil-based lubricants can cause latex condoms to deteriorate and ultimately make more of a mess post-sex. Alternatively, your own saliva also works as a lubricant. Either spit it onto your hands or let your partner know how much you care with your tongue. 2. Do it The moment you've been waiting for. Get 'er (or 'im, 'em) done! 3. Positions and Time Okay, so you're shaggin', now what? Having the time of your life and being the best lover possible doesn't mean cycling between obscure positions found in the Kama Sutra. Alternate between 2-4 positions with 3-5 minutes in each one and you're golden. You can try all the unorthodox positions in the world, but at the end of the day, you can't go wrong with the basics. They're 'classics' for a reason. Being a great lover isn't complicated, and fancy technique isn't necessary to impress whomever your in bed with. Unconventional positions are more of a novelty than anything else. There isn't some secret style that only the Don Juans of the world keep hidden from us mere mortals. And if you do experiment with some unusual positions--once you've gotten that out of your system--you'll be back to the typical ones in no time. If you'd like a visual reference of sex positions to try, we found this website handy. Pour Conclure This is possibly the shortest installment of the series, as there isn't much to it aside from the above. Stay tuned--tomorrow and Wednesday's installments will cover the real nitty-gritty on taking your sex game to the next level. P.S. Be sure to check out our toys and recommendations page to bring your play up a notch. --- Enjoy this article? Please Subscribe to our email list for the latest news, tips, and fun.Privacy is #1. We don't share your information with anyone.
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5-Point Friday #15-Point Friday - 10 May 2019 Hello friends,This is the first weekly segment of our 5-Point Friday series, a short list of things we're enjoying or pondering this week.1 ― Article we're reading ― We found an older article on the Daily Mail about Tantric Sex which we found very, very interesting. We had heard of it before but knew little about it. In a nutshell, Tantric sex is less focused on achieving an ejaculatory or clitoral orgasm, and more focused on circulating your sexual energy between you and your partner. If that sounds somewhat confusing, we thought the same thing.2 ― Video we're watching ― Vice magazine did a fascinating documentary on the Japanese Love Industry. In Japan, every aspect of intimacy has been compartmentalized and put-up for sale. In other words, if you'd like to hire a special someone for the evening just to cuddle or just to talk, don't worry, they've got you covered. You name it, they offer it.3 ― Book we're loving ― F*cked: Being Sexually Explorative and Self-Confident in a World That's Screwed. A really fascinating read that discusses past and present sexual norms and their relationship to us in the modern world. Finished this book in nearly one sitting. The authors―Krystyna Hutchinson and Corinne Fisher―are both hosts on their podcast Guys We F****d. It is somewhat crude, but we found ourselves laughing along with them. If you like sexual humor, this podcast may be for you.4 ― What we're learning ― Apparently, there is a somewhat popular sexual partner calculator to see how you stack up. Curious to see how you fare for your age group? Check it out here.5 ― Quote we're pondering ― “Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.” ― Oscar WildeThat's it for our first episode of 5-Point Friday.Which point above is your favorite? What do you want more or less of? Other suggestions? Reply to this email right here or tweet us at @sextoys_for_men and let us know.Have a great weekend, friends.-Alex
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How to Keep You AND Your Prostate HappyAnd before you ask, no, that picture is of a walnut. Not a real prostate. So, then, how can one take of this precious organ? The giver of life. The giver of pleasure. And the giver of massive loads. Grab your prostate and cowboy hat, because you're in for a wild ride. Below, I'll present you with seven sure-fire ways to make sure your pleasure-organ is still pumping and churning away the day before you end up in your coffin. NOTE: I am not a doctor. Take EVERYTHING you read here with a grain of salt. Likewise, what I am reporting below is based on PERSONAL experience. What works for me may NOT work for you. You need to experiment with yourself and see how you may apply all the principles below to your own life. 1. Exercise Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. I'm beating a dead horse with this one. Exercise apparently makes just about everything in life better. Depression. Obesity. You name it. Exercise will be prescribed. And keeping your little buddy safe is no different.  But I'm not talking about sissy cardio or bouncing up and down on the swiss ball.  Weight Training is where it's at. Weight Training will encourage the male body to produce more testosterone and build muscle mass. I'm not gonna get all sciency on you with how this all works, as I'm sure you've heard it all before, however, when your blood-testosterone level drops with age this causes a different bodily hormone to rise. DHT. When this sucker increases alongside declining testosterone levels, your prostate may end up a little too large for comfort. Long story short: Boosting your T-level will reverse the aging process and assist in modulating your male hormones--all the while making sure your prostate doesn't blow up to the size of a balloon anytime soon. And who doesn't want to have big arms, pecs, and chiseled abs? But if weight training isn't for you, at least do something. P.S. Don't forget to do your Kegels! 2. Watch Your Diet In other words, don't eat like shit. Future-you will thank past-you a million times over for this. There's a lot of debate over what a healthy diet actually looks like, and I'm sure whatever I say here will cause at least someone to roll their eyes, but I'll shoot my shot. So, what is the best
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